40 & Fabulous

Well it’s finally here!!  I made it to fabulous forty.  I use to be so afraid when I was knocking on 30’s door.  I felt like I didn’t have it all together. I wasn’t sure what my next steps were going to be. I was still learning as I go.  I also had my first child at 30 which in my previous life plans I had predicted it to be 25.  Isn’t it funny how life doesn’t go as you planned it?  Now that I am 40.  I have learned so much about what I want in life and what I don’t want.  I know what’s important to me.  I care about things I didn’t care about before.  I guess it’s called maturing lol!  I’m not afraid to walk boldly in confidence.  I feel great and dammit I look great!  I’m blessed beyond anything I would have imagined.  I still have dreams that I will still follow.  I have goals that I will strive to meet.  I get so many messages from beautiful people that are inspired by me and that gives me the motivation to keep pushing.  So please don’t ever think because you are getting older that you have to give up.  If you are around people telling you otherwise Get Rid Of Them!  They are toxic.

One other thing I have learned is to take care of yourself.  Eat healthy, exercise, get enough rest, & live in the moment.  Find ways to combat stress.  I’m still working on it and we are all a work in progress.  I couldn’t let this milestone birthday pass without letting everyone know how great it feels.





  • Levon S
    Posted at 13:23h, 10 March Reply

    Thanks for that. I feel the same way. I turn 40 in a few months and I’m looking forward to it. I’m excited for the journey! I may buy a Bentley Maserati Helicopter. .. I’m kidding.

    • Vee Wess
      Posted at 16:07h, 12 March Reply

      Ha Ha!! Please come pick me up for a spin 🙂

  • A. L. Fuller
    Posted at 14:06h, 10 March Reply

    Great Post- Truly Uplifting, Inspiring, Encouraging and Empowering especially since I am Too a Member of the 40 and Fabulous Club 🙂 Thanks So Much for taking the time to Share Your Story and Testimony and For Being Living Example and Source of Inspiration, Best Wishes and Extended Prayers for YOUR CONTINUED SUCCESS!!!!

    • Vee Wess
      Posted at 16:07h, 12 March Reply

      Thank you!! I’m so happy this post did just what I wanted it to do. Inspire! 🙂

  • Cheryl Bartow
    Posted at 15:23h, 10 March Reply

    This is awesome friend!! Thanks for always being the strong positive and motivational force!! At times we tend to be very hard on ourselves as we wear many hats and that’s okay as long as our bounce back is even harder! 💪👑

    • Vee Wess
      Posted at 16:06h, 12 March Reply

      Thank you so much!! This warms my heart. I appreciate you always supporting me 🙂

  • B Wash
    Posted at 00:28h, 11 March Reply

    Happy 40th B Day Lady!!
    Hope all is well with you and the family!!

    • Vee Wess
      Posted at 16:05h, 12 March Reply

      Hi!! Thank you! We are doing well. I hope you are as well.

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