09 Mar 40 & Fabulous

Well it’s finally here!!  I made it to fabulous forty.  I use to be so afraid when I was knocking on 30’s door.  I felt like I didn’t have it all together. I wasn’t sure what my next steps were going to be. I was still learning as I go.  I also had my first child at 30 which in my previous life plans I had predicted it to be 25.  Isn’t it funny how life doesn’t go as you planned it?  Now that I am 40.  I have learned so much about what I want in life and what I don’t want.  I know what’s important to me.  I care about things I didn’t care about before.  I guess it’s called maturing lol!  I’m not afraid to walk boldly in confidence.  I feel great and dammit I look great!  I’m blessed beyond anything I would have imagined.  I still have dreams that I will still follow.  I have goals that I will strive to meet.  I get so many messages from beautiful people that are inspired by me and that gives me the motivation to keep pushing.  So please don’t ever think because you are getting older that you have to give up.  If you are around people telling you otherwise Get Rid Of Them!  They are toxic.

One other thing I have learned is to take care of yourself.  Eat healthy, exercise, get enough rest, & live in the moment.  Find ways to combat stress.  I’m still working on it and we are all a work in progress.  I couldn’t let this milestone birthday pass without letting everyone know how great it feels.